"Committed"

Wow, after I wrote my last post I was driving to my class and on public radio, Kathleen Dunn had the author, Elizabeth Gilbert on her show. She just wrote a new book called "Committed". I did not hear the entire interview, but I think she was talking about the positives "in her life" to being married. I believe she is newly married. She also wrote "Eat, Pray. Love" a book that I just could not get through, as I thought it was really boring. I've already been through the process of "finding myself." It's an ongoing process. But, I think that I could also use some positive energy regarding marriage, since I am married. The thing that I find difficult is I am a very independent person, and need lots of space. I also feel stifled artistically with my husband around. Or maybe I don't have enough space, I'm not really sure what it is, my HEAD?